This year we all really need to focus on ourselves. There has been so much drama in 2010, it needs to stay in 2010. That's a silly saying really, since it's just another date. But it's true; Drama needs to stay in last year.
Part of focusing on ourselves includes our health. Pay attention to the things we eat, and try and be as active as possible. Every bit helps. Even if you can't afford the ridiculous membership fees of a gym by you, or you don't have the "time" to go there etc. Walk your dog...he needs it too. Walk with your kids...they'll never know they will be tired when they get home and have to go right to bed (hehe). There needs to be something you can do to stay active.
Love. Love yourself before anything else. And when you can do that, you can love someone else. Give them all the love you can give them, making sure you have love for you too. Most of the time, when you love someone with all that you've got, they will do the same back. (Talk about this first though, don't start stalking someone that doesn't even know you're alive.) Come out with your true feelings, and if they don't feel that way, then move on. Don't dwell over something like that. You're only going to be hurting yourself. And if it's meant to be, it will indeed be. I learned that the long way. And I am so happy that I hung onto that little bit I could for as long as I did. =)
As I start the third day in the new year, it's off to a good start. Woke up without an alarm, full of energy. Going to make breakfast, go to the bank, apply to a job, write a resumé, and go to work. After work, Wings with some awesome girls!! It's been far too long since we were all together....I'm so excited!!!
